Saturday, June 30, 2012

DIY Firepit: A Low Cost Weekend Project

We have a rambling, brambling patch of woods in our backyard. When we moved in to our house two and a half years ago there was a sorry old wood pile back there and a shallow pit for burning.  Since then I envisioned a new fire pit and I pinned quite a few elaborate set ups knowing that we would probably settle for something less.  Our neighbor began to clear his woods a while back and my husband and I let out a collective sigh, as our woods now look more rambling and brambling against the backdrop of his rather park-like setting.  As much as I would like to clear things back there, we have more pressing projects to attend to in our backyard--like filling in a monstrous dip that runs through the middle of it and  becomes a little creak at the first drop of rain.

I thought fire pit plans were put on the back burner. But shortly after I mentioned creating a fire ring from brick, I could see my husband's wheels start turning. One Saturday I found him cleaning up the old burning area and gazing at the huge pile of wood we had stacked from some trees we had cut down in May. And I knew with a gentle prod, we would be sitting around a fire that very night.

The most wonderful thing about this project is that it cost us ZERO dollars because we used things that were already laying around back there. We worked on it together and had fun doing it--which is another big plus. I think it turned out pretty well!

Here's what we did:

First we surveyed our scene and gathered up all the material we had in the yard: old brick and stones.  NOTE:  We did not use fire brick--because we did not have it on hand and this was a spur of the moment project.

We made a makeshift compass with a stick tied to a the string from a chalk line tape. For some reason, there is no string to be found in our garage. But this worked just fine!

As you can see we got a pretty decent circle. Jim held the yellow part in the center of where we wanted our pit and I drew the ring in the dirt with my stick. We wanted our ring to have about a 36" diameter so we added 7" to that to account for the width of the bricks we were using. To make our compass, we just halved that number to get the length of our string. We were not super precise, but it turned out just fine! 


Then it was on to digging our pit. We dug out our circle to the depth of our brick


I did some digging too...Just don't have a picture of it because Jim rarely picks up the camera.


Then we lined the outside of our circle with the bricks we found. Somehow we ended up having enough brick to complete our circle...but we did have to go digging around to find the last two bricks that we needed.


We filled the gaps in the brick with some sand...but that didn't really work out as well as I thought it would.
Then we gathered up the larger stones that were piled up in the yard and put them around the pit.  We also moved some large stumps in to use as a place to rest your derriere or a place to rest your beverage.


 We have quite a pile of logs back there because of the trees we had cut down this year. They just need to be split! Here's our finished pit. We plan to put some gravel back there so there won't be any mud. We've had three fires in it since putting it in and the brick is holding up for now. We figure at worst, the brick will eventually crack, and when it does we will replace it with fire brick. Until then, S'mores at our house, anyone?




I love impromptu projects that turn out better than expected--especially ones that cost little to no money! Have you done any recently?









Friday, June 29, 2012

Best Day EVER (this week) #18

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This week has been a busy one, again.  I'm kind of guessing that is going to be the norm with 4 kids during the summer.  I am longing for a few days were we don't have anything to do but I've already looked at July's schedule and I don't see it in the cards any time soon.


Being so busy makes it hard to pick a best day.  We certainly have had some excitement this week but nothing that stands out as the BEST.  So . . . here's a quick rundown of great things that happened this week:


 - Someone came to look at our house!  Then . . . they came back a second time the next day!  I'm hoping that we haven't heard anything yet because they are wondering how much to offer us!  I'm still holding out hope but the waiting to hear is killing me!


- My sister-in-law graduated from nursing school on Wednesday!  We are so proud of her!  Not only is graduating an amazing accomplishment but she did it as a single mom of 4 kiddos herself!  She'll be the first to tell you that she couldn't have done it without my amazing in-laws.  It just makes me realize how lucky I am to have married into such an awesome family.


- We had a GIANT sleepover on Wednesday night!




- In the morning, the girls and I made rainbow pancakes and sausage for breakfast...I made 2 packages of sausages and a double batch of pancakes and had NO leftovers!!!'

- Today is going to be a HOT one - so I'm thinking we are either going to get the baby pool out and chill poolside or stay in the AC all day.  Chasing 2 two year olds is no fun but in close to 100 degree heat it becomes miserable!

Hope you have a great weekend!





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Tuesday was by far the BEST day for me this week. The humidity was low and that was all I needed to hear to consider heading off to the Zoo to get our money's worth on the membership.  I hesitated for a minute at the thought of taking wrangling four kids on my own. But I threw caution to the wind and just did it.  The truth is the girls want to stick by their mom. They don't want to get lost as much as I don't want to loose them. So my visions of them darting  North, South, East, and West in the most crowded areas of the zoo will not come true.  


Even Chloe was happy to hold my hand and she WALKED the entire time. I kept offering to put her in the stroller but she was happy trotting beside me--even at the very end on our trip to the far end of the parking lot she trudged along (she was trudging too).  My two year old probably walked her tiny butt three or four miles that day!


I had some fun with the camera this trip so I thought I would share some:



Enjoy your weekend!








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Thursday, June 28, 2012

June Book Club: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close

June's selection: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer caused mixed reviews from our book club group. This is a different book than what we normally read--so if you are looking for "different" this book may be a hit for you.


Many of us may have gone into our reading with a preconceived notion about the book.  Because the movie release (which preceded our reading) really hyped up 9-11, most were expecting more of the events of that day to be experienced in the pages--that notion kept a few from even cracking the book.  If you are expecting a re-telling of the events of that day--you will not find it here. This is a story that sets 9-11 as a catalyst for the book. But I wonder if the same story could be told  with a tragic death occurring any other way?  I bet in many ways the story would not be changed.  But because 9-11 is a day that affected so many of us so deeply--we wondered if the marketing of the movie and book was such that people felt compelled to watch and/or read.  At least one reader found the book to be too gimmicky and found some of the images in the book to be in poor taste.

The novel is somewhat difficult to follow. Flashbacks, imagined scenes, and a lack of traditional dialogue make it difficult to follow the book at times. Some became distracted trying to figure out who was doing and  saying what and why. Those who plodded through ignoring those distractions found that there was a payoff in the end and might find viewing the movie or giving the book a second read would be beneficial.

For a story that got mixed reviews leaning heavily to a majority not liking it at all, we still managed to have a thought provoking, at times enlightening discussion about the book.  (That's why we love this group!)

We used questions from LitLovers for our discussion. If you've read along with us, choose a question(s) and leave your response in the comments:

1. Talk about Oskar--an unusually precious child. Do you find him sympathetic or annoying, or both?

2. For Shakespeare buffs: Oskar "plays Yorick" (the long dead jester whose skull Hamlet holds in his hand!) in a school production. What is the significance of that role? (See Hamlet: Act V, Scene I, Line 188).

3. Jonathan Safran Foer has said that he writes about characters and their miscommunication: some characters think they're saying a lot but say nothing; others say nothing but end up saying a lot. Which characters fall into which category in Extremely Loud? What might Foer be saying about our ability to communicate deep-seated emotions?

4. Some critics wondered where Oskar's mother is and how the child is left alone to wander the streets of New York alone at night. Is that a relevant comment? Do you see this book as a work of realism (in which case the mother's role would matter)...or as more of fable, on the order, say of Life of Pi? If the latter, what is Extremely Loud a fable of?

5. Do you find the illustrations, scribblings, over-written texts, etc. a meaningful, integral part of the work? or do you find them distracting and gimmicky? Why are they there?

6. How do both main plot and subplot (Oskar's grandfather and the bombing of Dresden) interweave with one another?

If you did not get a chance to read our selection you can pick up a copy in our STORE and check out our past selections for more Summer reading.

Our selection for July will be:



  Love in a Nutshell by Janet Evanovich and Dorien Kelly. Pick up your copy HERE.

Happy Reading!








Monday, June 25, 2012

What Your Children NEED to Hear

I have writer's block today . . . so, I made a list.  ENJOY!



10 Things You Should Tell Your Children EVERY Day

1) I love you! - You should say this everyday as many times as you possibly can.  Say it until you get that familiar "I know, Mom" or "You always say that!"  Say it when they wake up.  Say it before they go to bed.  Say it before they leave for school, a play date or just to run around outside.  Say it when they come back.  Say it when they are eating breakfast, lunch and dinner.  Say it as much as you can!

2) I'm proud of you! - Find something everyday to tell your children you are proud of them for doing.  Tell them you are proud that they are learning to read or learning to add or subtract or multiply.  Tell them you are proud of the way they drew that picture.  Tell them you are proud that they finished their dinner and cleared the table.  Tell them you are proud of how they are sharing with their brother or sister.  Let them know they are doing things to make you happy!

3) You are special - Every child is special.  Find something everyday that makes your child special (even if it is just because they are YOURS) and tell them about it.

4) It's okay. - Honestly, a lot of the things that kids do drive us crazy.  They can push our buttons.  They make messes that they can't clean up and we know we will be stuck cleaning.  They break things - expensive things or irreplaceable things.  I promise you that at some point one of those things will happen (if you are like me it happens daily).  TAKE A DEEP BREATH, GIVE YOUR DARLING CHILD A HUG and say, "IT'S OKAY!"  You will both feel better - and even though it may not feel like it's okay . . . it will be.

5) Yes! - Kids hear "No." ALL the time!  "No, you can't eat that."  "No, you can't do that"  "No, you can't have that."  "No, we can't buy that."  "No, we can't go there"  Do yourself (and your kids) a favor and pick one thing a day that you would normally say NO to and say YES!  Their smiles (and shocked little faces) will be worth it!

6) How about now? - Tomorrow . . . Tomorrow . . . there's always tomorrow.  We always put things off that we don't have time for or don't feel like doing.  For example, Danika has been asking me to make cookies with her for 3 days and I keep telling her another day.  Tomorrow, when she says "Mommy, when are we going to make those cookies?" I'm going to say, "How about now?"  I can't wait!

7) That's a great idea! - I know I love it when someone says that to me . . . it doesn't happen often, though!  Imagine how many more ideas they will have if you tell them how great their ideas are!  Not every idea is going to be great, of course, but if you don't encourage them they will stop having ideas and that is truly tragic.

8) I love spending time with you! - Believe it or not, your kids would rather have you spend an hour reading, drawing, laughing, snuggling, playing, cooking, building, learning, teaching, racing, throwing, catching, swinging and smiling than anything that you can buy them.  Best of all - it doesn't cost a penny!  Each day spend some time with you kids and then tell them how much you love spending time with them, it will mean more than you can imagine!

9) Will you help me? - A lot of the things we want done by our kids we tell them to do.  In fact, one of the lessons I learned early on when teaching 3 year olds was that you tell them and don't ask them . . . because if you ask them they can say, "No".  However, with your kids it is sometimes nice to ask for help.  There are certain things that they HAVE to do and those are the things that you can TELL them to do . . . pick up your toys, make your bed, brush your teeth, eat your dinner, turn off the TV.  But imagine asking your child to help you with something that they don't HAVE to do but you truly WANT their help with!  "Can you help me set the table?"  "Can you help me make dinner?"  "Can you help me pack a bag?"  "Can you help me find my keys?"  It will make them feel needed and useful, which we all know are WONDERFUL feelings!

10) You make my life complete. - Yes, I love Jerry Maguire.  I've always loved that movie . . . perfect mix of chick flick and sports movie (yeah . . . that's coming from a chick so I'm sure it isn't PERFECT but I enjoyed it!).  The whole, "You COMPLETE me" thing has always been one of those things that I've considered to be just as powerful (if not more so) than an "I love you".  Telling your child that they make your life complete not only tells them that you love them but it also tells them that they are part of you.  We may be More Than Mommies but Mommies are also a BIG part of who we are and we wouldn't be complete without the loves of our lives!


Sunday, June 24, 2012

The Sunday Sip: The Queue is OPEN!



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Saturday, June 23, 2012

Twin Tales: Part One

So . . . If you know me or have been around a while you have probably heard me mention the twins.


I figured it's about time I share a little bit with all of you and let you know what it's like to have twins.

Twins are fun.  Twins are challenging.  Twins are frustrating.  Twins are a riot.  Twins really are twice the love.  Twins are also twice the work.

They do the funniest things, too.  You know that video on YouTube





As a mother of twins I can honestly say that it made me smile but it didn't surprise me because I saw things like that all the time on an everyday basis!





When they were first born they were adorable and slept a lot . . . usually tucked in close together.



Now that they are two years old . . . they are usually driving each other crazy (or driving me crazy).  They are also inseparable.



They've also started to get in trouble together...for example - I give you Twin Tales: Part One  -

Have you ever seen the movie Barnyard?  How about Chicken Run?

Lately my twins have been loving movies that have anything to do with a farm and farm animals.  Both of these movies have been seen SEVERAL times by all my kiddos in the last few weeks.  They have been playing with the farm on ABCmouse.com.  Dean's favorite song is Old MacDonald . . . and if you try to sing anything else he will yell at the top of his lungs, "NOOOO!!  Old MicGongold!!!"

Have I painted a picture for you that my twins LOVE all things farm/barn?

Good, because it makes what they did yesterday afternoon more understandable and even more adorable . . . because you won't find it annoying since you didn't have to clean it up.  I thought about grabbing the camera but knew that Jerry would be home soon and finding the mess they made would not make him happy.

I washed my hair in the bathtub and started the hairdryer.  I was planning on going out and was getting ready.  I finished drying my hair when I realized the twins were TOO quiet.  Quiet is NOT good.  If they are screaming and yelling, I can usually tell if it is serious or not.  Quiet?  I have no idea what that means.

I went to check on them and stopped dead in my tracks.  They had found the mini chocolate chips and had scattered them all around the room (think birdseed).  They were in the center of the room, kneeling on the floor "pecking" the chocolate chips up off the floor.  Yes . . . my sons had become chocolate chip eating chickens.

Unfortunately, we do not have whole house air and the air conditioner was not on in their room and the chocolate chips underneath them were melting.  Therefore, they were quickly becoming chocolate chip spotted chickens - long with their very light carpeting.

Yeah - it was funny . . . after I got all of the chocolate chips vacuumed up and the polka dots scrubbed out of the carpet.  However, I will tell you that the laughter and image were well worth it.

Stay tuned . . . the Twin Tales will surely continue!




Friday, June 22, 2012

Best Day EVER (this week) #17


If you are looking for a spot to link up your best post of the week:You found the place! Welcome to The BEST day EVER (this week): A carnival brought to you by the gals behind More Than Mommies. So anything is fair game for the link up--as long as it's your best of the week! 

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It's been a long week for me and as I sit here trying to think of the best of the week, I just see a bunch of different things that we did and not one specific day or time. Father's day was a highlight, of course. But beyond that, it's been a quest to get into some kind of Summertime groove. 


The girls have been sleeping in later and later, and they want to stay up later too.  I struggle with the bedtime routine because it is hard to justify getting them to bed when the sun is shining, but if they don't get to bed somewhat early then I don't get to spend any quality time with the Mister.  The weekday lights out is 10pm here and I usually nod off around 11pm. I've pushed the girls' bedtime to 9pm at the latest but I need some time to unwind in the evening--kid free. (Does that sound bad?) I couldn't turn in at the same time that they do.  What do you do for your Summertime bedtime routine? 


I'm trying hard to get my work done in the morning hours so that we have time to do fun things for the rest of the day.  Like bake cookies:

And do little science experiments:


Oh, and I caught the dog doing his Elvis impersonation:

We always get a laugh when his lip get stuck like that. I was glad I had the camera in hand when it happened because usually he gets it unstuck before I can get a good picture of it. If you have a boxer and they do "the Elvis" (they all do it, don't they?) try to get a pic for me--post it on our Facebook page. It would make me smile! 

Happy Friday, Everyone!




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Just like Christine, we are trying to get into the summer groove.  I may have mentioned that my house has turned into a "Fun" house . . . or the "Fun" house, depending on how many kids are here and what they are doing, this summer.  This week I got a tiny taste of what it might be like if Danika and I weren't outnumbered 4 to 2 in the boy/girl ratio.


It was nice.  Sunday night my niece, Mia, stayed over and we made Watermelon Rice Krispie treats!


They were pretty yummy.  Of course EVERYONE'S favorite part had to be the chocolate chip seeds . . . if only watermelon REALLY had chocolate chip seeds!


Then on Monday, we shipped Nate off to Nana's to say with the boys and Mia and Angelina both slept over!  We made Sidewalk Chalk Paint and had a blast painting the patio and sidewalk outside!




I got both ideas from Pinterest - if you don't follow our Pinterest boards, you should!!!  Just look for MoreThanMommies!!!


I will admit that it was nice to have a few extra girls around for a day or two and I'm sure it's not the last time it will happen this summer!  I will also admit that I LOVE my house of boys and am really happy to be outnumbered most of the time but am thankful for my daughter, too.  


Hope you have a fantastic Friday!  We are headed to the library today.  (Oh - and speaking of being outnumbered, as I type there are 3 boys playing video games in the living room and the twins are sleeping upstairs in their crib . . . I don't stand a chance today!)










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Thursday, June 21, 2012

Letters to My Younger Self: On Friendship


It is time once again for the monthly feature: Letters to My Younger Self.  If you'd like to catch up on this series you may read more Letters to My Younger Self  HERE. We've touched on topics like Miscarriage, Body Acceptance, Mothering Girls, Breastfeeding, and Living in the Present Moment, so far. What would you tell your younger self? Let us know in the comments section!


Dear Young Christine, 

You are an introverted extrovert, otherwise known as a Gemini.  If there was a ever a person who fit the dual sided personality of a true Gemini it would be you. At times you are very shy, self editing, and subdued and at other times you are outgoing, talkative, and wearing your heart on your sleeve. I don't know if it is typically difficult for a Gemini to make friends, but for you it has always been somewhat of a challenge. 

Often, at first glance you appear aloof, which can make you seem: snobby, bitchy, unapproachable and disinterested. While your husband, another Gemini, found this to be an exciting challenge, there are many others who would not take the time or energy to see beyond that first impression to your honest self: who is open, accepting, giving, forgiving, loving, fun, intelligent, and honest.

There are only a handful of people on this long journey who truly "get" you.  Those people--some of them far from your every day life right now--are your friends. Don't we all have those friendships that could pick up right where they left off after weeks, months, or years apart?  I wish all of your friendships could be that way. Alas, there are degrees of friendship. For some reason, we see the need to guard our hearts from people. 

I want to remind you to thank those people who took/take the time to see your true self. Tell them you love them. Name them: Allison, Heather, Jodie, Aimee, Kelly, Jess, Autumn, Toni, Mike, Jim, Jody, Lu. Perhaps there are others...hopefully there will be more. Even though time and geography and circumstance may have separated you --They each have a special place in your heart and help to make you who you are. 

Don't know if any of you will read this, but I want to thank you for being my friend when I needed someone to see the real me. 







Monday, June 18, 2012

The "FUN" House

Since summer has "officially" begun we have had an extra kid (or two) sleep over at our house 7 out of 14 days.  Not bad.  We have had an extra kid (or five) over at some point 10 out of 14 days.  Here's the proof:


Some people think that I am crazy but it is actually EASIER the MORE kids I have at my house. I think it's because my kids have other kids to play with and less time to get sick of each other.  There seems to be less whining and less crying (for the most part) when I have a house full of kids.

I have no problem being the "FUN" house.  I actually am honored to have the house that all the kids want to sleep over at and hang out at - it makes me feel like I'm doing something right.  It also helps calm my odd fear of not knowing what my own kids are doing when they aren't home.  Honestly, I'm not worried about someone else not watching them or them being put in some kind of danger . . . I'm more worried about them doing or saying something REALLY embarrassing.

Being the "FUN" house does have it's drawbacks, though.

On the day the picture above was taken I went through 2 pkgs of hot dogs, 2 pkgs of hot dog buns, 2 "sleeves" of HI-C juice boxes, 10 - 12 Popsicles, 10 - 12 pkgs of fruit snacks and about 3 rolls of paper towels.  Being the "FUN" house can get a little bit expensive.

I still don't mind because I think it's worth the money.  I love that I have a somewhat close relationship with all of my nieces and nephews (they are the ones that have been invading lately).  I'm also very thankful for the job that I have because teaching allows me to be here to be the "FUN" house.  I'm sure that teaching has done a lot more than just give me the time home . . . it's given me patience as well as the "skills" needed to deal with large groups . . . . like the ones that have been around lately.

All that being said, I also have to say that I'm grateful for my hubby.


I'm not just saying this because yesterday was Father's Day (although I didn't want to fit a Happy Father's Day into my post today - Love you, Sweetie!!).  My husband has come a LONG way since we were married when it comes to dealing with kids.  I can honestly tell you that there were a few times I was worried that he wasn't going to be able to hack it . . . weeks on end when he would come home to me exhausted and the entire house looking like Phineas and Ferb turned it upside down and rightside up again.  Then there was the fighting, crying, constant asking for things and in general ignoring that took place on a daily basis.  It just took him a little bit longer (after all he isn't a teacher) to get with the program.  Now . . . we are an unstoppable force!

So . . . if you are looking for something to do one weekend just give me a call or text me.  Chances are I'm going to have at least a few (or more) kids hanging around and you are more than welcome to join the party at the "FUN" house!

FYI . . . it may take me a few hours but if you drop your kid off and bolt, I will EVENTUALLY notice.  hehehe  :)

Sunday, June 17, 2012

The Sunday Sip: Fill Your Cup with Monica at Monica's Mom Musings


It's Time for The Sunday Sip again!   Our fun weekly feature bringing you "more than mommy" bloggers from around the web.  This honestly has to be one of my favorite posts that we do weekly! If you missed any of the blogs featured on The Sunday Sip, you can check them out here, or visit our Sunday Sip Pin Board


If you are interested in being featured in one of our Sunday posts, simply drop us a quick email and let us know! We would love to be introduced to your blog and introduce you to our readers, whether you are a new blogger or a fixture in the blog world.  The queue is always open, so don't be shy. 


This week we are sitting down with Monica at Monica's Mom Musings.  



Good morning, Monica!  What's in your cup this morning?

Water!  I don't drink coffee or tea.  Hot chocolate is about the only hot beverage you'll catch me drinking, but it's too hot out for hot chocolate.  Hey, give me a break, I worked at a coffee house for a few years in college.  I just can't stand that coffee smell.

When I was pregnant with the twins, I couldn't stand the smell of coffee either!  I'm happy to say that I no longer suffer from that ailment . . . but kinda envy you for being able to just have some water!  Sooo much healthier!

Tell us about yourself.

My name is Monica and I'm a SAHM of 13 years.  I'm the mother of four ranging in age from toddler to teen (16 months, 4 years, 10 years, and 13 years).  I am the former PTA president and Girl Scout leader at my older girls' school.  I gave up all of my volunteer work last year to focus more on my own family and my blogging at Monica's Mom Musings.  And now that my 4 year old will be going onto Kindergarten in the fall I feel the call to get back into my involvement in the school.



How did you come up with the name for your blog?  

I have been blogging for four years now.  I had/have a family blog that I was using to chronicle my children's lives.  Last year I decided I wanted to branch out from that.  I had a few things I wanted to share about parenting, but felt that it didn't need to be on my family blog.  I had an occasional recurring piece on my family blog called Monica's Musings and I decided that I just wanted to expand on that.  And since 3 M's are better than 2 I just stuck the Mom in the middle there and bam Monica's Mom Musings was born.  

So, if you have to pick, what is one post that you want everyone who comes to your blog to read and what was your inspiration for writing that post?

Okay, I know you must hear this all the time, but seriously I can't pick just one.  I worked really hard on my Cloth Diaper Guide, but that's actually 4 pieces so I guess I can't use that.

I guess if I had to pick just one, then it would have to be Is It Preschool Or Just Glorified Daycare?  I wrote this post when I realized that so many people don't realize that there is a difference between accredited preschools and unaccredited preschools.  There seems to be little research being done into what sort of education our children will be receiving.  And since preschool today is like Kindergarten was when we were children I am a firm believer in finding the best academically based preschool and it doesn't always have to cost you an arm and a leg.  As a matter of fact my children have attended accredited preschools that were completely free to me.  And they have come out of it very well prepared to start Kindergarten.

Ahhh - a women after my own heart!  I'm a part-time preschool teacher and I can assure you that I preschool should NOT be glorified daycare!  I love the questions you have listed on the post and can honestly answer #13 with a YES!!!!
We noticed there was a recent special occasion on your blog, Happy Blogiversary!!!  Right now we see your blog as a place to get a ton of useful information from recipes to new products.  We also see that you share some of your everyday life - the video of your son singing Yankee Doodle was ADORABLE! Has it always been your approach to blog in this way and where do you see your blog going and growing to in the future?  

Thank you for the Blogiversary wishes.  I'm having so much fun with this.  And I'm so glad you got a kick out of my son's rendition of Yankee Doodle.  He's quite the comedian.

When I first started Monica's Mom Musings I really wanted to focus on my thoughts as a parent so I really didn't plan on sharing my children in that way so much, but then I realized they are really my light and I couldn't possibly share my thoughts on parenting without actually sharing a little of them.  And come on, who doesn't love a video of a 4 year old singing Yankee Doodle?  I knew I couldn't keep that to myself.

As far as where I see my blog heading in the future who knows what's in store.  I want it to be a place where everyone feels they can come and discuss issues though without being censored in anyway.  I don't expect everyone to see eye to eye with me and I want them to tell me when they think what I have to say is just totally out there.  After all Aristotle once said, "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it!"

Aside from that I see in the very near future the launch of a summer book club for moms though.  If anyone wants to come read and discuss books with me keep an eye out for that.

Christine and I are both avid readers!  Of course, we don't do it nearly as much as we did before becoming mommies of 4!!!

Finally, what makes you more than a mommy?

 Is there more to life than being a mommy?  I have been a mommy for 13 years so it's hard to think of myself as anything else.  But okay my interests outside of motherhood: 
  • I am a Mets baseball fan living smack dab in the middle of Yankee and Red Sox territory.  
  • I love music.  I used to play the piano.  I love classical music especially Mozart, but am also the biggest fan of 80's hair bands, especially Def Leppard.  If I had no responsibilities and unlimited funds then I would totally hit the road following Def Leppard around the world.  
  • And then I guess I would be remiss if I didn't mention the other side of me that goes by the name Sparkles The Clown.  I became a professional clown when I was 15 years old and I still put on the costume and makeup from time to time.  Needless to say, I do not have children who are afraid of clowns.


Thanks so much for sitting down with us this morning, Monica!  I know I really enjoyed reading your answers and I look forward to reading more about you on your blog, Monica's Mom Musings!  

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Saturday, June 16, 2012

Got Dads?

I am a lucky girl. I bet you all get tired of hearing that from the eternal optimist writing on this blog. I choose to focus on the happiness in this world. There is some if you look for it.  Sometimes I feel like I'm living a charmed life, a little naive, too trusting. Truth is, I don't have a reason to believe I should feel otherwise. I'm beating the odds. What's the divorce rate these days? What percentage of children are growing up/have grown up in single parent homes?

I am lucky because my grandparents are still together. My grandfather is a force larger than life in my world. He is full of fun and magic. My kids and cousins' kids call him "Candy Pap Pap" now. Back in the day his pockets would jingle, and the change there always found its way to our hands via magic tricks and slight of hand.  He would push us on our tricycles using the handle of a broom so he would not have to bend over (ingenious). He would walk us a mile up the road for penny candy--wear us out-- and then let us re-energize with Swedish Fish, Candy Peanuts, Sixlets, Wax Lips and Candy Cigarettes (?!). His fire company would have a "Corn Carnival" every year, and we would spend our evenings there with him--feeling like he ran the show--"Oh, you're Al's Grand kids!," people would say, and I always felt like my Pap must have talked us up so much that people could pick us out of a crowd. Every where we would go, he always seemed to know someone. And if he didn't know anyone, he found someone to get to know and talk to next time. He read to us. He walked with us. He organized an egg hunt every year.We played games (ring toss, pin the tail on the donkey, breaking pinatas, fishing, bean bag toss, balloon pop) every year on his birthday--even into adulthood--my kids played the same games that we played!  He let us pick the veggies out of his garden. Climb his trees. He would take us to the neighbor's to swim. He made my childhood special. He makes me feel special.

My Dad and Mom are together too. My dad would sacrifice it all for his family. He always reminded us of his priorities--God, my mom, our family--and he would do everything he could to show us that we were important. He worked (works) hard every day. He never does anything half way:  he's the type of guy that moves all the furniture if he decides to vacuum the floor. He took us camping. Squirted us with the garden hose.  Pushed us on the swings. Cooked us hot dog pancakes and introduced us to fried pickles. Took us for a drive to "Timbuktu" or "Schenectady,"  which was code from Gram's house or Dairy Queen.  Sure he made me sit through two hour lectures at the dinner table, but he also taught me about hockey and watched The Pens games with us. He would turn the music up loud and dance with us, and he would let us sit on the basement steps and cheer as he pounded on his drum set. Then he would let us crash the cymbals and use the kick drum. And he would let me sit on his lap at the Pinochle table and stack his nickels and dimes.

These Dads are special--not because of the things they bought us, or how many hours of overtime they put in. It isn't what they do for a living, but what they live for doing: and that is spending time.  My Pap and My Dad spent their time. They spent time talking to us, being with us and allowing us to be with them. Dads make their kids feel important, loved, and secure by spending time. Being there without distraction.

That's hard to do, and is harder to do today than it ever has been. I'd be remiss if I didn't mention my husband here. I think he does a great job with our girls. For as hard and long as he works, he still finds time to wrestle with our kids on the floor. He still takes time to listen to their stories and attend their "after dinner parties." He makes pancakes for them. He sips from plastic tea cups, talks on plastic phones. He lifts them up high over and over and over and over again. He lets them trail him through the woods behind the house. He tickles them. Hugs them. Tells them he is proud of them. Tries to get them to nap with him on the couch. Allows them to put stickers on his head and face while he "sleeps". Lets them beat him up. Makes them laugh. Spends his time.

Thanks for being there, Dads.

Happy Father's Day!




Friday, June 15, 2012

Best Day EVER (this week) #16

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Sunday is Father's Day . . . are you ready?   We kind of, sort of already gave our Father's Day presents to 2 of the 3 fathers we are planning on giving gifts to.  I'm HORRIBLE at keeping presents once I get them.  I swear it is a disease or something!  Once I have the present ready, I want to just GIVE IT to the person it is for.  I get soooo excited about seeing them happy!


So . . . my best day this week was when my sister and I made the Father's Day presents that I presented to my dad and my DH yesterday . . . since I couldn't wait.  Wanna see them?


This is the one for Jerry - he's going to take it to his office!

This is the one that we gave to Nunnu - I'm sure it will find a special place in his house soon!  
The kids had a blast making them and were REALLY excited to give them to the recipients, too!  There is something about giving a present that you really thought about and put a lot of love into that just makes the giving almost better than getting something yourself!


Hope you all have a fabulous Friday - and Happy Father's Day to all the dad's out there!










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It's been a whirlwind week around here.  It felt like it was moving super slow and yet, I can't believe it's Friday!  Besides it being my birthday week, the best day, by far, was Sunday.  The three older girls had their dance recital.  They each danced beautifully in a way that totally captured their personalities.       

Livi got to dance twice because the first time around the little ones got hung up on one side of the stage and were all jumbled together and no one could see. 

 Ava was the little "big bad wolf" in one of her dances and I could tell she really enjoyed the fact that she got to howl at the end of the performance and she made me smile with her "Choo Choo Chaboogie" tap dance--even though her feet were a little slow, her hand motions where on point and she looked so cute up there (the shortest in her class). 
And I got a tear in my eye when I watched Jordan dance her ballet to "Somewhere Over the Rainbow".  It's hard to believe that three years ago she was begging me for fairy lessons (that's what she called dance class back then.)  
I had a proud mommy moment at the end of the show when the studio stood on stage for the finale.  The senior dancers where introduced and the instructors where named on stage. Each year they choose one dancer from the studio who they feel showed a love for dance, and leadership and a special sparkle.  They call it the "star quality" award and it comes with a scholarship to the studio next year.  Jordan was the recipient this year--out of probably over 100 young ladies.  I am so incredibly proud and happy for her. She loves to dance and winning this award is such a boost to her spirit and confidence. I cannot wait to see where this takes her!


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